7/03/11
On the plane back to Miami from Lima, I sat by a sweet lady who lives in Florida but is Limeña. One last Spanish speaking experience. I got to speak to her the whole flight in Spanish and we just talked about how much we loved the people of Peru and how big their hearts are. She understood exactly what I was talking about, how something about them, especially the children, is just so loving and warm. Once you meet a Peruvian once it’s like you’ve known them forever. It’s embraces and kisses and smiles from then on. It sounds cheesy, but they really do touch your heart. We had a great time talking and she was so so excited that I study Spanish and that I spoke well and what I had done in Peru. She has family here that she comes and visits once a year and she goes to the public hospitals like we did and gives out donations every time she comes. Seriously she was like such a little angel sitting next to me. I told her about how I am studying Spanish, but am trying to enter med school this year I hope. First of all, she was so complimentary and impressed with my Spanish and second when I told her “Ojala que entre en la facultad de medicina el proximo ano…” she looked at me and said “NO, VAS a entrar en la facultad de medicina, no ojala.” Even though she knows me from nowhere it was so comforting to hear someone speak with such confidence. Then when we landed she was precious, we were talking about being excited to be back home and she just kept putting her hands together as we landed saying “Gracias a Dios!” and “Estamos en casita!” (We're home!) with a huge smile on her face. I have really met all kinds of people on this trip from young world travelers bouncing from hostel to hostel across the world to sweet old people to gorgeous loving children, to the wealthier older travelers. This morning I was standing in line for my boarding pass and started talking to a rich limeño businessman traveling to Bolivia for business when we saw a group of musicians in front of us in line with all matching jackets, who he explained to me is a famous salsa group from Peru (AC Orquesta) touring and he recognized the main singer and introduced himself who then introduced himself to me and started talking to me a bit. Funny to meet a Peruvian celeb, because they are just traveling the same annoying airport way as the normal citizens, not like US celebs in private jets. Also, they served my favorite Peruvian meal on the plane one last time, lomo saltado! And free wine and chocolate?! I’ve never heard of that on the plane- LAN is awesome…I will NEVER fly Star Peru again!
Wow…I didn’t really realize how sad I was going to be to leave Peru until I was finally alone and on my own again. After Lena and I parted in the Lima airport this morning, I just wandered around on my own for the very first time in a month. I literally have always been surrounded by someone if not all of our group at all times. I now realize how close we all became, I truly gained a little family in Peru. Also, when I walked around the international departures part of the Lima airport I became sadder and really realized I’m leaving Peru for good when I saw all the stores asking American dollar prices and speaking in English to people. I am going to miss hearing and speaking Spanish all the time so much! It is such a beautiful language and English is just so boring…Also, holy crap I’m going to come back a tight wad. Everything in real Peru is sooo cheap! About 2.8 soles/1 dollar. But in the airport, everything is touristy and like double the price of Huancayo. I miss my Huancayo home and family already!! After yesterday’s fiasco in the airport all day in Cuzco I was soo ready to get home. Maybe it was just because I was worried I wouldn’t make it home when I was supposed to. Although I still can’t wait to get home to see all my lovely family and friends, I am now really having Peruvian withdrawals. I feel like I have become partially Peruvian over the past month of living here without even realizing it until I am torn away. L Regardless, it has been an amazing experience. I have learned so much, met so many wonderful people from all parts of the world, and built relationships with so many beautiful loving children that I will never ever forget. I don’t want to just leave those precious faces and never do anything for them again, so I am hoping I can keep writing some of them and maybe our group can join forces and fundraise to do special things for them, like at Christmas. I thought at first I would just chalk this up as a great experience, but never really want to come back to this part of Peru because there isn’t that much to visit and tour and I have already seen it once. However, the more I think about it the more I would love to come back and bring other people to experience this second home of mine some day and visit all of the children when they have grown up a bit.
Reverse culture shock for real…When I landed in the Miami airport I am wandering around like a lost puppy. I swear I feel more like a foreigner here right now with all this English. It’s weird to have everyone ignore you and not stare at you all the time because you are the only white blond girl around! Also, I keep saying little instinctive comments to people in Spanish…like my incredibly white waiter at the restaurant I just ate dinner at. I said “La cuenta por favor.” (Check please) and Permiso…(Excuse me.) when I was walking past him. He just chuckled…ahh plus it’s sooo freaking expensive here!! And tax and tip! There is no tax on anything in Peru and no one tips, it’s just not a custom…So what the price of something is is exactly what you pay. I was shocked when I saw my bill and how expensive it ended up being…But omg the water…I just downed like 3 glasses of tap water because I havn’t been able to just drink water in so long without buying a water bottle! So glorious! And toilet paper everywhere…I can’t complain. It’s good to be back. I think I have come back a lot less vain. While I was there I hardly ever looked in the mirror, as we shared one tiny one with 9 people. I hardly spent any time on myself or getting ready, which was really really nice. It wasn’t so much about me for a month, it was about anything and everything we could do for those struggling around us. However, within a few days of being back I can already feel myself getting sucked into the materialistic American life again, which I hate! It’s so hard not to get sucked into the daily blowing money on totally unnecessary things here. But I do feel like when I left Peru I brought back with me their sense and knowledge of what is really important in life, which is God, family, friends, relationships, and showing love. Nothing else really matters. They don’t care what their houses or cars look like, they don’t even have cars! Hot showers and clean water don’t really bring you happiness. (Although I might argue this one! J)Though most Americans probably wouldn’t believe it, I found out that you can live quite happily without all of the extra excesses, in fact often these things just add extra burdens and stresses that you don’t need. I had little to no stress while I was living in Peru, and within a day of being back I already feel all the stresses of the things I need to be doing. I’m going to miss Peru, but I definitely came back a new person, or at least with a new and refreshed outlook on life in its raw and beautiful form.